Saturday, May 29, 2010

Kopi Talk - Sex-Pats in Singapore and Philippine.

Hi Kim when I was in Korea like they all told me that prostitution is illegal but underneath everyone know the dynamics of demand and supply. In Singapore Geylang, in the Philippine Angeles City- "Red Light district" Like Singapore and Philippine regardless of your age, weight, physical appearance, interpersonal skills, wealth or social class you will be a sexy man.

In Angeles City The Go-go bars start to open at noon and a few keep the music pumping until 5:00 AM. Some small hostess bars are open 24/7. In Field’s Avenue was the main attraction of Angeles. It was playground for customers to dosed up on Viagra. more than one hundred and fifty go-go bars lined the blocks just outside of the Clark Airbase, a former US airbase. For years, the bars had serviced the needs of sailors and airmen, but now as the base was closed. I heard from a friend who stay in Angelas say that if a man who doesn't buy drinks for any of the girls while he's bar hopping is called a Cheap Charlie. Generally, eight drinks will buyout a dancer or waitress from her shift and she will leave the bar with you. The politically correct term for this is early work release program. It's most often called a bar fine. The bars are able to release employees before the end of their shift; however, the law prohibits bars from controlling or directing the conduct of its ladies once they're out the door. You pay to get the girl out of her shift. Nothing else. Some girls will go out to eat with you, some will go bar hopping, some will spend the night, some will fly home with you. He recommended that no other hotel has a better combination of luxury, comfort, and a cheerful, kinetic atmosphere that has earned its reputation for being “The Party Hotel.” This unique luxury boutique hotel provides all the ingredients for the best and wildest kinds of parties any pleasure-seeker could ask for. Each room is decorated fit for royalty, with in-room amenities including among others: saunas, steam baths, party Jacuzzi, and party-size beds. Thanks hollyjean  for the article about the Geylang "Red Light District"


Posted by Holly Jean 
A Sex-Pat is a person (generally a white man) who could not get laid back home (well, not as easily anyway), who moves to an Asian country, and suddenly finds that prostitutes and SPGs treat him like the man he always knew he was.

The difference between a sex-tourist and a sex-pat is the sexpat lives in the country, a sex-tourist is a short stay visitor.
It’s a power rush. To suddenly be desirable (even if it is only to a much less discerning crowd of women...) can get to any man’s head, and inflate it. (NOTE: Not all women in Singapore fall to their feet just because they’re white, okay?!)

I have recently started seeing a white man. And I like him a lot. He is also at this stage quite smitten by me. But I am wary and extremely careful with this one… because he is very new to Singapore. Why is this bad??? It’s because I am afraid that he will fall into the sex-pat pit. I’m not saying he’s a sex-pat, he’s not…

But look around us… you know what they say- Play with shit, Smell like shit.
The many pitfalls awaiting any new white expat in Singapore include:
Prostitution
Chewing gum is banned… along with some relatively harmless video games, and movies and books. It will cost a Singaporean more money to enter the casino than it would to get laid by a tyranny. You can only smoke within yellow boxes. You cannot take your dogs into the malls. But prostitution? Prostitution is a thriving business in Singapore. Me thinks… somebody may have missed something here???
Geylang is not the only sex district in Singapore. Right on our world renowned fashionable shopping district we have Orchard Towers; the 4 floors of whores. It is home to several escort services, sleazy bars and bar front brothels.

KTV joints

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(I am the only one here that is secretly snickering away every time a KTV joint gets raided by the cops, and you see pictures of all the idiots trying to cover their faces?)
Sleazy Massages hese are dodgy massage parlours where the massage isn’t that great but they offer clients a happy ending.
hese are dodgy massage parlours where the massage isn’t that great but they offer clients a happy ending.
Social Escorts
I have never understood why a man would pay for a woman and keep it social. Pay her for sex, yes, it makes sense. But to pay a woman so she can chat with you over dinner??? Sure...... *cynical laugh*

And even if a new white man can manage the willpower and pride to avoid all these pitfalls… just an innocent trip down to Attica could just as easily make him fall down that sex-pat pit.

So, you see now why I have reservations on this guy I really like? A new white man in Singapore faces so many pitfalls.

Of course, after going through the sex-pat phase, many white men (stung, broken, jaded, but hopefully not diseased) will come to see Sex-Patism for what it really is (though some just never leave the candy store).
My question is, is the Sex-Pat Phase something EVERY new expat will go through?

I Work in the Sex Industry